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  • From the Play List Top songs I have listened to in 2011: Lee Gaon

    Lee Gaon – לי גאון “אתה לא יודע” הקליפ (הרשמי)

    Top songs I have listened to in 2011

  • Seguy Art Deco Designs 101

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  • Tiger Beetle Coloring Page

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  • Professional letter writers

    By Geeta Pandey   BBC News, Delhi:    For centuries, professional letter writers have helped millions of illiterate Indians but many have long disappeared from the cities – but not in Delhi, where one man claims to be the last letter writer left in the country’s capital.

    An Indian writes a postcard

    An abiding memory of my childhood years in the Indian city of Calcutta is of my mother writing letters for our domestic help, Kailash. Kailash was 50, he was from the neighboring state of Orissa and had never been to school. Every month, my mother would put pen to paper and consult him before writing each sentence. The letters would always begin with “Dear son…” and would then ask after the well-being of his large family. They contained all his news and instructions on how to spend the money he was sending them. In our teenage years, my sister and I took on the responsibility of composing his letters. Kailash lived in our home and he could come to any of us to write his letters.

     

     

    For millions of others like him, who travelled regularly from rural India to the big cities for work, there have been professional letter writers who thrived for centuries but are now on the verge of disappearing.

    Jagdish Chandra Sharma is perhaps the Indian capital’s last surviving professional letter writer.  Continue reading the main story

  • Study brain can be trained in compassion

    Researchers at the Center for Investigating Healthy Minds at the Waisman Center of the University of Wisconsin-Madison examined whether training adults in compassion can result in greater altruistic behavior and related changes in neural systems underlying compassion.
    In the study, the investigators trained young adults to engage in compassion meditation, an ancient Buddhist technique to increase caring feelings for people who are suffering.
    In the meditation, participants envisioned a time when someone has suffered and then practiced wishing that his or her suffering was relieved.8d337-260291_10151674843907518_1073142538_n
    Participants practiced with different categories of people, first starting with a loved one, someone whom they easily felt compassion for, like a friend or family member. Then, they practiced compassion for themselves and a stranger.
    Finally, they practiced compassion for someone they actively had conflict with called the “difficult person”, such as a troublesome coworker or roommate.
    “It’s kind of like weight training. Using this systematic approach, we found that people can actually build up their compassion ‘muscle’ and respond to others’ suffering with care and a desire to help,” said Helen Weng, lead author of the study and a graduate student in clinical psychology.
    Compassion training was compared to a control group that learned cognitive reappraisal, a technique where people learn to reframe their thoughts to feel less negative.
    “We wanted to investigate whether people could begin to change their emotional habits in a relatively short period of time,” said Weng.
    The real test of whether compassion could be trained was to see if people would be willing to be more altruistic – even helping people they had never met.
    “We found that people trained in compassion were more likely to spend their own money altruistically to help someone who was treated unfairly than those who were trained in cognitive reappraisal,” Weng said.
    The study measured changes in brain responses using functional magnetic resonance imaging (fMRI) before and after training.
    The researchers found that the people who were the most altruistic after compassion 260291_10151674843907518_1073142538_ntraining were the ones who showed the most brain changes when viewing human suffering.
    They found that activity was increased in the inferior parietal cortex, a region involved in empathy and understanding others.
    Compassion training also increased activity in the dorsolateral prefrontal cortex and the extent to which it communicated with the nucleus accumbens, brain regions involved in emotion regulation and positive emotions.

  • devotion

    Sogyal Rinpoche, “Real devotion is an unbroken receptivity to the truth. Real devotion is rooted in an awed and reverent gratitude, but one that is lucid, grounded, and intelligent.”

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  • Opportunities 4 mindfulness

    For most of us, a typical day begins when we get out of bed, wash, and then start our activities. At some point, we get a bite to eat, walk somewhere, and talk to someone. Often, by the end of the day we find ourselves stressed out and physically exhausted. It doesn’t have to be that way!

    Everyday activities can be an opportunity for a meditation moments; bringing mindfulness, clarity, and peace into your day while energizing yourself and reducing stress.4_lies

    A study published in the journal Consciousness and Cognition found: “Brief meditation training reduced fatigue, anxiety, and increased mindfulness. Moreover, brief mindfulness training significantly improved visuo-spatial processing, working memory, and executive functioning.”

    These brief mindfulness meditations can be done anywhere or anytime …well using common sense. Just like you should not text and drive I would not meditate and drive either.

    Here are two examples of how to add meditation without taking time out of your schedule.

    1. When you get up in the morning, you usually wash. Let’s use washing your face for our first meditation opportunity. Feel the temperature of the water on your hands. Focus on the temperature as you add a little soap. Notice how the suds feel on your hand. When a thought comes in, think of it as someone else’s phone ringing. You hear it, but you don’t have to answer it. Next, feel your soapy hands or the washcloth on your face. Focus on that sensation as you wash your face. Next, feel the rinse water on your face — how does it feel? Is it too cold? Too hot? Just right? If your mind wanders, there is no need to judge, just go back to focusing on the feeling of the water on your face. As you towel off, feel the sensation of the air on your face. It’s that simple, you just meditated.
    2. As you go about your day, you are most likely waiting in line or in traffic, so take a moment to breathe. Everyone has to breathe, and there is no way the person in front of you in the coffee line will know you are meditating! Sense the breath coming in and out of your nose or mouth. Don’t worry about thoughts; you know what to do, think of your thoughts as someone else’s cellphone ringing. Some people like to label their thoughts as “thought” and then let them go. The important thing is returning to sensing your breath coming in and out of your body. You will feel your shoulders relax and your patience returning.
  • Emotional Intelligence

    I often work with groups using lists. In movement therapy as well as psychotherapy, educational and process oriented groups lists are a great structure for groups to explore thoughts, and/or feelings. Here is a list that often comes up in groups ten suggestions about feelings.
    1. Become emotionally literate. Label your feelings, rather than labeling people or situations.
    Use three word sentences beginning with “I feel”.
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    “I feel impatient.” vs “This is ridiculous.” I feel hurt and bitter”. vs. “You are an insensitive jerk.”
    “I feel afraid.” vs. “You are driving like an idiot.”
    2. Distinguish between thoughts and feelings.
    Thoughts: I feel like…& I feel as if…. & I feel that
    Feelings: I feel: (feeling word)
    3. Take more responsibility for your feelings.
    “I feel jealous.” vs. “You are making me jealous.”
    Analyze your own feelings rather than the action or motives of other people. Let your feelings help you identify your unmet emotional needs.
    4. Use your feelings to help make decisions
    “How will I feel if I do this?” “How will I feel if I don’t?”
    “How do I feel?” “What would help me feel better?”
    Ask others “How do you feel?” and “What would help you feel better?”
    5. Use feelings to set and achieve goals
    – Set feeling goals. Think about how you want to feel or how you want others to feel. (your employees, your clients, your students, your children, your partner)
    – Get feedback and track progress towards the feeling goals by periodically measuring feelings from 0-10. For example, ask clients, students, teenagers how much they feel respected from 0 to 10.
    6. Feel energized, not angry.
    Use what others call “anger” to help feel energized to take productive action.
    7. Validate other people’s feelings.
    Show empathy, understanding, and acceptance of other people’s feelings.
    8. Use feelings to help show respect for others.
    How will you feel if I do this? How will you feel if I don’t? Then listen and take their feelings into consideration.
    9. Don’t advise, command, control, criticize, judge or lecture to others.
    Instead, try to just listen with empathy and non-judgment.
    10. Avoid people who invalidate you.
    While this is not always possible, at least try to spend less time with them, or try not to let them have psychological power over you.

  • A Book Talk on the Indo-Pacific Empire

    The Japan Chair is delighted to invite Rory Medcalf, Professor and Head of the National Security College at the Australian National University, to discuss his new book, Indo-Pacific Empire: China, America and the contest for the world’s pivotal region. Please join us virtually to learn about the Indo-Pacific region and the potential for great power conflict between the United States and China.

  • From the Play List Top songs I have listened to in 2010

    From the Play List Top songs I have listened to in 2010: PAULINE CROZE – Jour de foule

    I have a 16,000 plus digital audio collection and I use Media Monkey to manage my files. One feature of Media Monkey is you can sort your collection based on the number of times played. This playlist is based on the top music and/or music video files I played/listened/streamed from my server: Playlist 2010